The holiday season can feel like a whirlwind, right? Between the shopping, the parties, and trying to keep up with everything, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. We often find ourselves rushing through what should be a joyful time. This year, let’s try a different approach. We want to embrace a simple Christmas living mindset, focusing on what truly matters: connection, rest, and genuine joy. It’s about slowing down and actually enjoying the season, not just getting through it.
Key Takeaways
- Focus on giving personal, meaningful gifts rather than just buying things. Think about what truly suits the recipient.
- Simplify your decorations to reduce clutter and stress. A few well-chosen items can create a festive atmosphere.
- Make time for rest and relaxation. It’s okay to say no to some obligations to recharge.
- Embrace traditions like baking cookies from scratch or having family movie nights to create lasting memories.
- Shift your focus from deals and material possessions to experiences and genuine connection with loved ones.
1. Give Personal Gifts
This year, let’s try something different with our gift-giving. Instead of just grabbing whatever’s on sale, we can put a little more thought into what we give. Personalized gifts show we really know and care about the people on our list. Think about what makes them smile, what they love to do, or a special memory you share. It doesn’t have to be expensive; it’s the thought and effort that count.
We could try making something ourselves. Maybe a knitted scarf, a jar of homemade jam, or even a framed photo from a fun trip we took together. There are tons of simple DIY ideas out there if you need inspiration. For example, we could create personalized photo albums or get favorite pictures framed. It’s a way to give something truly unique.
Here are a few ideas to get us started:
- Handmade Crafts: Think candles, soaps, or even a batch of your famous cookies.
- Memory Jars: Fill a jar with notes about favorite memories you have with the recipient.
- Custom Artwork: If you’re artistic, paint or draw something special. Even simple sketches can be meaningful.
- Personalized Items: Consider getting something engraved, like a journal or a piece of jewelry. You can find great DIY Christmas gift ideas that add a special touch.
Sometimes, the best gifts are the ones that come from the heart, not the store. It takes a little more time, sure, but seeing the look on someone’s face when they receive something made just for them? That’s a pretty great feeling. It’s about showing love in a way that money can’t always buy.
2. Simplify Holiday Decor
We often feel pressured to go all out with holiday decorations, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by boxes of ornaments and endless strings of lights, let’s aim for a simpler, more curated look. Think about what truly brings you joy when you see it. We can declutter our decoration boxes, keeping only the items that make us smile and donating the rest. This way, we save time and energy, focusing on a few special pieces rather than trying to fill every surface.
We can choose a more streamlined approach by picking a simple color palette. This makes decorating easier and creates a more cohesive feel. Instead of a house overflowing with decorations, we can focus on one or two areas that feel festive and welcoming. This might mean a beautifully decorated tree with just a few cherished ornaments or a mantelpiece with a simple garland. It’s about creating a cozy atmosphere, not a competition.
Minimalist decorating doesn’t mean sacrificing the festive spirit. It means being intentional about what we bring into our homes. We can opt for natural elements like pinecones or greenery, or even create our own handmade decorations. These personal touches add warmth and character without adding to the clutter. Remember, the goal is to enjoy the season, not to spend all our time setting up and taking down decorations. Embracing a simpler approach to holiday decor can actually make the season feel more magical and less stressful. It’s about finding joy in less, and letting our homes reflect a calm, festive spirit. We can even look for inspiration on how to achieve a sophisticated festive look with fewer items.
3. Take Time to Rest
The holiday season often feels like a marathon, doesn’t it? Between parties, shopping, and family visits, we can easily get swept up in the hustle. But here’s a thought: rest is not a luxury, it’s a necessity, especially during this busy time. We need to actively schedule downtime, just like we would a doctor’s appointment or a holiday gathering. Think of it as essential prep for enjoying the season fully.
Sometimes, the best way to recharge is to simply step away from the to-do list. It’s okay to say no to some invitations or to delegate tasks. We can get so caught up in what we think we should be doing that we forget to listen to what our bodies and minds actually need. Prioritizing rest helps us avoid burnout and actually makes us more present and joyful when we are participating in holiday activities.
Here are a few ways we can build rest into our holiday schedule:
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4. Bake Cookies From Scratch
There’s something special about the smell of cookies baking in the oven, especially during the holidays. We love dedicating a day to making Christmas cookies and other treats. It’s a tradition that brings us together, from gathering the ingredients at the store to the messy, fun process of decorating.
This year, let’s make time for a dedicated baking day. It doesn’t have to be complicated. We can pick a few simple recipes, maybe some of our favorites from childhood, or try something new. If we’re baking with kids, patience is key, but the memories we create are absolutely worth any kitchen chaos.
Here are a few ideas to get us started:
- Classic Sugar Cookies: Always a hit, and perfect for decorating.
- Gingerbread Men: Fun to shape and even more fun to decorate.
- Chocolate Crinkles: A simple, rich cookie that’s always a crowd-pleaser.
Baking from scratch is more than just making cookies; it’s about creating a tangible piece of holiday cheer that we can share with others. The act of making something with our own hands and then gifting it feels incredibly rewarding.
Once our creations are ready, we can package them up to share with neighbors, friends, or even use them as edible gifts. It’s a sweet way to spread some holiday spirit.
5. Have a Family Movie Night
Let’s be honest, sometimes the best way to slow down during the busy Christmas season is to just… stop. And what better way to do that than with a cozy family movie night? We love picking out a classic holiday film, maybe something we haven’t seen in a while, and making an event out of it. It’s a simple tradition that really helps us connect.
First, we decide on the movie. Sometimes we let the youngest pick, other times we draw titles from a hat to keep things fair. Then, we gather all the essentials: comfy blankets (maybe even a new one from Hallmark Channel if we’re feeling festive!), pillows, and of course, snacks. Popcorn is a must, but we also like to have hot cocoa or some homemade Christmas cookies ready.
The real magic happens when we put away the phones and just focus on the movie and each other. It’s a chance to unplug and enjoy some quality time together. We’ve found that even just one movie night a week can make a big difference in feeling more present during the holidays. It’s a simple pleasure, but it’s one of our favorites.
6. Decorate Your Tree the Old Fashioned Way
Remember when decorating the Christmas tree felt like a special event, not just another task on the to-do list? We’re bringing that feeling back by decorating our tree the old-fashioned way. Think less about perfection and more about the process. This is a wonderful way to slow down and connect as a family.
Instead of just tossing on ornaments, we’re going back to basics. We’re talking about stringing popcorn and cranberries, making simple paper chains, and maybe even cutting out shapes from construction paper. It’s a chance to get creative and use what we have around the house. We might even try making some simple ornaments from salt dough or dried orange slices. It’s amazing what you can create with a little imagination and some basic supplies.
We’re also looking for inspiration from trees of the past. It’s fun to see how people decorated decades ago, using natural elements and homemade touches. You can find some great examples of vintage Christmas trees that might spark some ideas.
Here’s how we’re planning to make it a memorable event:
- Put on some classic Christmas music.
- Make a big batch of hot cocoa or cider.
- Let everyone, especially the kids, have a say in where ornaments go.
- Share stories about ornaments from years past.
This approach turns decorating into a shared activity, a moment to build memories rather than just a chore to get done. It’s about the joy of creation and the warmth of togetherness.
7. Read the Christmas Story
We often hear the Christmas story read aloud during the holidays, but when was the last time we really sat down and read it ourselves? It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, but taking a few moments to connect with the original meaning can be incredibly grounding. This year, let’s make it a point to pull out our Bibles and read the story of Jesus’ birth.
We could even try reading a chapter each night in December leading up to Christmas. It’s a simple practice, but the repetition can bring a new depth to our understanding and appreciation of the season. It’s a quiet way to remember why we celebrate in the first place. Focusing on the narrative can help us slow down and truly absorb the message. Consider making this a family tradition, perhaps reading from the Gospel of Luke a daily chapter each evening.
This practice helps us center ourselves on the true reason for the season, shifting our focus from commercialism to the spiritual significance of Christmas. It’s a gentle reminder of peace, hope, and love.
It doesn’t have to be a lengthy reading; even five minutes a night can make a difference. It’s about intentionally carving out time to reflect on the miracle of Christmas. This quiet ritual can become a cherished part of our holiday routine, offering a moment of calm amidst the festive chaos.
8. Do a Puzzle
When the holiday hustle starts to feel like too much, we find ourselves looking for ways to just… stop. Doing a jigsaw puzzle is a fantastic way to do just that. It’s a quiet activity that lets our minds wander or focus, depending on what we need. We can spread out the pieces on a table and work on it together over a few days, or tackle a smaller one in an afternoon. It’s a great way to disconnect from screens and connect with each other, even if we’re not talking much.
We’ve found that puzzles offer a unique kind of satisfaction. There’s something really rewarding about finding that one piece that fits perfectly, and seeing the image slowly come together. It’s a low-pressure way to spend time, and it doesn’t require any special skills. Plus, the sense of accomplishment when you finish is pretty great.
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
- Choose a theme: Pick a puzzle with a picture you both love, maybe a favorite landscape, a classic painting, or even a funny scene.
- Vary the difficulty: Start with a simpler puzzle, maybe 300-500 pieces, and work your way up if you’re feeling ambitious.
- Make it a group effort: Invite other family members or friends to join in. It can be a fun, collaborative project.
Sometimes, the best way to enjoy the season is by doing very little, but doing it together. A puzzle fits that bill perfectly. It’s a chance to slow down, engage our brains in a gentle way, and just be present.
It’s a simple pleasure, but one that brings a surprising amount of calm. We’ve even started keeping a few different puzzles on hand, ready for those moments when we need a break from the holiday rush. It’s a nice way to create a cozy homestead aesthetic without any fuss.
9. Volunteer and Give Back
The holidays can sometimes feel like a whirlwind of shopping, parties, and to-do lists. It’s easy to get caught up in our own little worlds. But this season is also a perfect time to shift our focus outward and think about others. Finding ways to volunteer and give back can bring a unique kind of joy and peace to our Christmas.
When we step outside our own bubble, we remember what the season is truly about. It’s about connection, kindness, and community. There are so many organizations that could use an extra hand during this time of year. Think about local shelters, food banks, or even animal rescues. Even a few hours of your time can make a big difference.
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
- Help at a soup kitchen: Many places need volunteers to serve meals to those in need.
- Donate to a toy drive: Gather new or gently used toys for children who might not otherwise receive any.
- Visit a nursing home: Spend time with residents, share stories, or help with activities.
- Offer practical help to neighbors: Shovel snow for an elderly neighbor or help a busy family with errands.
Giving back doesn’t always mean grand gestures. Sometimes, the simplest acts of kindness, like offering a listening ear or a helping hand, can have the most profound impact. It’s about sharing our time and resources with a spirit of generosity.
Choosing to serve others reminds us of our own blessings and helps us appreciate the season more deeply. It’s a way to connect with our community and spread a little extra cheer where it’s needed most.
10. Shop for True Joy Not Deals
It’s easy to get caught up in the holiday shopping frenzy, especially when sales start popping up everywhere. We often feel this pressure to buy, buy, buy, and sometimes we grab things just because they’re a "good deal." But let’s be real, is that really what Christmas is about? We want to shift our focus from snagging bargains to finding gifts that genuinely mean something to the people we’re giving them to. The most meaningful presents aren’t always the ones that cost the least, but the ones that show we’ve put thought and care into choosing them.
Instead of chasing discounts, let’s try to think about the person receiving the gift. What do they love? What do they need? What would truly bring a smile to their face? Sometimes, a smaller, more thoughtful gift that aligns perfectly with someone’s interests is far more cherished than a big-ticket item bought on impulse just because it was on sale.
Here are a few ways we can approach shopping with joy in mind:
- Make a List (and Stick to It): Before you even think about hitting the stores or browsing online, jot down who you need to buy for and what you think they might like. This helps prevent impulse buys.
- Focus on Quality Over Quantity: Instead of buying several small, inexpensive items, consider pooling resources with others for one more significant, lasting gift.
- Consider Handmade or Personalized Items: These gifts often carry more sentimental value and show a deeper level of effort.
- Think About Experiences: Tickets to a show, a cooking class, or even a planned day trip can create lasting memories that physical items can’t always match.
When we shop with intention, focusing on the joy the gift will bring rather than the price tag, we not only save ourselves from unnecessary spending but also give gifts that truly matter. It’s about connecting with people, not just accumulating stuff.
11. Know Your Limits
The holiday season can feel like a marathon, and it’s easy to get caught up in doing all the things. But we need to be real with ourselves about what we can actually handle. Trying to be everywhere and do everything often leads to burnout, which is the opposite of what we want for a peaceful Christmas.
It’s okay to say no. Seriously. We don’t have to accept every invitation or take on every project. Think about what truly brings you joy and what feels like a chore. If sending out holiday cards feels overwhelming, maybe skip them this year or opt for a simple email greeting. If baking from scratch is more stress than fun, there are plenty of shortcuts like using a good quality boxed mix or buying a few special treats from a local bakery.
We can also set boundaries around our time and energy. This might mean deciding beforehand how long we’ll stay at a party or letting family know we can only manage one big gathering this year.
Here are a few ways to honor your limits:
- Assess your energy levels: Be honest about how much you can realistically take on without feeling drained.
- Prioritize what matters: Focus your energy on the traditions and activities that genuinely bring you happiness.
- Delegate or simplify: If a task feels too big, see if someone else can help or if there’s a simpler way to accomplish it.
We often feel pressure to live up to some idealized version of the holidays. But a truly joyful Christmas comes from being present and enjoying the moments, not from ticking off an endless to-do list. Protecting our peace is part of celebrating the season.
12. Have a Time-Saving Gift Wrapping Strategy
Let’s face it, the pile of presents can get pretty daunting, and then comes the wrapping. It feels like a whole extra holiday in itself! To keep this from becoming a last-minute scramble, we’ve found it helpful to set up a dedicated wrapping station. Think of it as your gift-wrapping command center. Gather all your supplies – paper, ribbon, tags, scissors, tape – in one spot. If you don’t have a table you can dedicate, a large bin or a gift wrap organizer works wonders.
To make things even simpler and more cohesive, try picking just a few complementary paper patterns and a solid color. This way, everything looks put-together without needing a huge selection. Having a consistent look makes the whole process feel less chaotic.
Here’s a simple plan to tackle the wrapping:
- Wrap a little each day: Aim to wrap one or two gifts daily. This is a perfect task to do while watching your favorite show or waiting for laundry to finish. It breaks up the task into manageable chunks.
- Prep ahead: If you’re giving gifts to a large group, consider using a "draw names" system so each person only buys one gift. This cuts down on the sheer volume of wrapping you need to do.
- Keep it simple: Don’t feel pressured to do elaborate bows or intricate folds. A neat fold and a simple ribbon are perfectly lovely.
Trying to wrap everything on Christmas Eve is a recipe for stress. By spreading it out, we actually find a little bit of calm in the process, and it feels more like a thoughtful activity than a chore.
13. Keep Gift Giving in Check
It’s easy for gift-giving to spiral out of control, especially when we have a lot of people we want to show love to. We often feel like spending more money means we’re showing more love, but that’s not really true. The amount we spend on a gift doesn’t actually reflect the depth of our relationship with someone.
Instead of focusing on how much we’re spending, let’s think about gifts that show we’ve been paying attention. These are the ones that feel truly special. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the thought of buying gifts for everyone, here are a few ways we can simplify:
- Draw names: For larger groups like extended family or friends, drawing names means everyone gives one gift and receives one. We can even split into adult and kid groups for more age-appropriate gifts.
- Set spending limits: Agree on a maximum amount for each gift. This takes the pressure off finding the
14. Give Experiences Over Things
We often get caught up in the idea that bigger and more expensive gifts are better, but what if we shifted our focus? This year, let’s try giving experiences instead of just more stuff. Think about what your loved ones truly enjoy or have always wanted to try. Maybe it’s tickets to a concert they’d love, a weekend getaway, or even a class to learn a new skill. These kinds of gifts create memories that last way longer than any physical object.
We can even pair these experiences with a small, related item to make the gift feel more tangible. For example, if you’re gifting tickets to a local play, include a nice playbill or a small bag of gourmet popcorn. If it’s a voucher for a cooking class, maybe add a unique spice blend or a nice apron. It’s about adding a thoughtful touch that connects to the main experience.
Here are a few ideas to get us started:
- A membership to a local museum or zoo
- Tickets to a sporting event or a live performance
- A voucher for a weekend camping trip or a day at an amusement park
- Lessons for something they’ve always wanted to learn, like pottery or guitar
These gifts not only bring joy but also encourage quality time together, whether it’s just the two of us or the whole family. It’s a wonderful way to connect and build lasting memories, moving away from the clutter of material possessions. Consider looking into local attractions and events for inspiration.
15. Celebrate the Season
We often get so caught up in the preparations and the big day itself that the entire holiday season flies by in a blur. This year, let’s try to stretch out the joy and make the most of the entire winter period. Instead of putting all the pressure on Christmas Day to be perfect, we can spread the enjoyment over weeks. Think about making it a season-long celebration.
Here are a few ideas to help us savor the season:
- Create simple decorations: Use natural elements like oranges studded with cloves (pomanders) or dried orange slices. Gather some greenery to make a festive wreath.
- Cook seasonal favorites: Don’t limit your holiday baking and cooking to just one day. Enjoy making and eating your favorite festive dishes throughout the winter. Try out some new recipes too, especially those that use citrus and spices.
- Cozy up with books and music: Revisit beloved winter-themed books or discover new ones. Make a playlist of your favorite holiday and winter songs to set a cheerful mood.
The real magic of the holidays isn’t just on Christmas Day, but in the feeling that permeates the weeks leading up to it and extends beyond. By slowing down and embracing the entire season, we give ourselves more opportunities for connection, reflection, and simple pleasures. It’s about the journey, not just the destination.
Let’s aim to make this holiday season less about a single event and more about a continuous feeling of warmth and togetherness. We can make the entire winter feel like a celebration.
16. Get Inspired
Sometimes, the holiday season can feel like a whirlwind, and we might lose sight of what truly matters. It’s easy to get caught up in the commercialism or the pressure to do all the things. When that happens, we find it helpful to look for inspiration from different sources. This could mean revisiting old traditions that brought us joy, or perhaps exploring new ways to celebrate that align with a simpler, more meaningful Christmas.
We like to spend some time looking at ideas that focus on connection and gratitude. Think about creating a cozy atmosphere at home, maybe by adding some festive touches to your kitchen, like simmering spices and greenery. Or perhaps you’ll find inspiration in handmade gifts, thoughtful letters, or even just spending quality time together.
Here are a few things we do to get inspired:
- Revisit favorite holiday books or movies: Sometimes, a familiar story can remind us of the magic of the season.
- Look at simple craft ideas: Pinterest is full of easy DIY projects that can add a personal touch.
- Listen to uplifting Christmas music: A good playlist can really set a positive mood.
- Talk to loved ones about their favorite memories: Hearing about what others cherish can spark new ideas.
It’s not about finding the perfect way to celebrate, but rather finding what feels right and joyful for us. We try to remember that the most memorable moments often come from simple, shared experiences, not from elaborate plans or expensive gifts.
17. Set Boundaries
The holiday season can feel like a runaway train, can’t it? Suddenly, our calendars are packed with parties, shopping trips, family gatherings, and all sorts of ‘shoulds’ that we feel obligated to do. It’s easy to get swept up in the rush and forget what we actually want to do. That’s where setting boundaries comes in. It’s not about being difficult or a party pooper; it’s about protecting our peace and making sure we’re spending our precious holiday time on things that truly bring us joy.
Think about it: what events or traditions genuinely fill your cup, and which ones leave you feeling drained? We often feel pressured to say ‘yes’ to everything, but we don’t have to. Learning to politely decline is a superpower for a simpler Christmas.
Here are a few ways we can start setting those boundaries:
- Evaluate Your Commitments: Take a moment to look at your calendar. For each event or obligation, ask yourself: Does this add value to my holiday season? Does it align with our family’s goals for a simpler Christmas? If the answer is a hesitant ‘maybe’ or a clear ‘no,’ it might be time to let it go.
- Communicate Clearly: Once you’ve decided what you can or can’t commit to, let people know. A simple, honest explanation is usually best. Something like, "Thank you so much for the invitation! Unfortunately, we won’t be able to make it this year, but we’re sending our best wishes." You don’t need to over-explain or make excuses.
- Protect Your Downtime: Just as important as saying ‘no’ to extra commitments is saying ‘yes’ to rest. Schedule in time for quiet evenings, family movie nights, or simply doing nothing. This ‘white space’ in your calendar is vital for recharging.
- Be Realistic About Energy Levels: We all have a finite amount of energy, especially during busy times. Don’t overcommit yourself based on how you wish you felt. Be honest about your capacity and plan accordingly. It’s better to do a few things well and enjoy them than to spread yourself too thin.
Setting boundaries isn’t about shutting people out; it’s about creating space for what truly matters. It allows us to be more present and joyful in the moments we choose to engage in, rather than feeling overwhelmed by obligations we never really wanted to fulfill in the first place.
Remember, this season is about connection and joy, not about checking off an endless to-do list. By setting clear boundaries, we give ourselves permission to enjoy a Christmas that feels authentic and peaceful for us.
18. Stay Grateful
It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the holidays, comparing what we have to what others seem to have. But when we feel that pressure creeping in, it’s a good time to pause and remember what truly matters. Focusing on gratitude can shift our entire perspective.
Think about it: the most cherished memories often aren’t tied to the biggest gifts or the fanciest decorations. They’re about the laughter shared, the quiet moments together, the feeling of connection. When we actively practice thankfulness, we tend to feel less anxious and less inclined to measure our holiday against anyone else’s. It helps us appreciate the simple joys, like a warm drink on a cold day or a good conversation with a loved one.
Here are a few ways we try to keep gratitude at the forefront:
- Start a gratitude journal: Jot down a few things each day that you’re thankful for. It doesn’t have to be profound; it could be as simple as a sunny morning or a delicious meal.
- Share appreciations: Take a moment during a family meal to go around and have everyone share something they’re grateful for.
- Reflect on past joys: Look through old photos or think back to favorite holiday moments. Remembering the good times can bring a sense of contentment.
When we intentionally focus on what we have, rather than what we lack, the holiday season naturally becomes more peaceful and joyful. It’s about appreciating the present moment and the people we share it with.
This practice helps us remember that Christmas is about togetherness and joy, not just about spending or keeping up appearances. It’s a chance to slow down and truly appreciate the season. For more ideas on creating a simple, sustainable holiday, check out these zero-waste decorations.
Wrapping It Up
So there you have it – 18 ways we can all take a breath this holiday season. It’s easy to get caught up in the rush, but remember, Christmas is really about slowing down and enjoying the moments that matter. We don’t have to do it all, and we certainly don’t have to do it perfectly. By picking a few of these ideas that speak to us, we can create a Christmas that feels more joyful, less stressful, and truly ours. Let’s aim for connection over chaos this year, and really soak in the magic of the season.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why should we try to make Christmas simpler?
Sometimes, the holidays can feel super busy with lots of shopping, parties, and things to do. This can make us feel stressed instead of happy. Trying to have a simpler Christmas helps us slow down, enjoy the real meaning of the season, and spend more quality time with the people we care about.
How can we give more meaningful gifts without spending a lot?
We can focus on giving gifts that are personal and made with thought. This could be something handmade, a drawing, or even a promise to spend quality time together. Thinking about what someone truly needs or would love, rather than just buying something expensive, makes the gift much more special.
What’s a good way to decorate for Christmas without getting overwhelmed?
Instead of buying tons of new decorations every year, we can keep our decorating simple. Maybe we can use a few favorite ornaments, make some decorations ourselves, or focus on a cozy, natural look. This makes decorating easier and less cluttered.
How can we make sure we actually get to rest during the holidays?
It’s important to realize that we don’t have to do everything. We can learn to say ‘no’ to some invitations or activities that we don’t really want to do. Scheduling quiet time for ourselves, like reading a book or just relaxing, is just as important as attending events.
What are some ways to enjoy the holiday season beyond just Christmas Day?
We can stretch out the joy by enjoying holiday activities throughout the whole season. This could mean baking cookies over a few weekends, watching holiday movies, or listening to festive music. Making the entire winter season feel special takes the pressure off just one day.
How can we avoid feeling stressed about shopping and deals?
We can try to shop with intention, focusing on gifts that are truly meaningful rather than just buying things because they are on sale. Making a list and sticking to it helps avoid impulse buys. Sometimes, the best ‘deal’ is finding a gift that brings genuine joy, even if it costs a little more.
